Breaking the silence on little-known sexual dysfunctions

In a society where sexuality is omnipresent, but only half-heartedly addressed, many people with vaginas find themselves isolated when faced with little-known or rare sexual dysfunctions. Often rarely discussed, they nevertheless significantly affect the lives and intimate comfort of those who suffer from them.

Problems that directly concern sexuality

Female sexual asthenia: more than just fatigue

Sexual asthenia refers to persistent fatigue that affects libido, even when one feels generally fit. This situation can be difficult to live with, impacting not only intimate life, but also self-esteem and relationships.

It is crucial to understand that this fatigue is not simply a "lack of desire". It can be linked to various factors, including hormonal imbalances or psychological problems. If you suffer from this problem, it is essential to discuss it with your sexologist or doctor in order to identify the cause and treat it.

For example, you can benefit from hormonal therapy or behavioral therapy to manage it. In your daily life, you can try to implement small, simple gestures to revive your interest in sex. Try to make love in different places, create an intimate atmosphere with candles with a captivating scent , use sensory massage oils , favor activities that awaken sensuality in the couple (or even solo) such as dancing, try erotic literature, try massages and take the time to relax and feel good, ... And above all, do not hesitate to talk about it with your partner so that unspoken things do not settle in.

Sexual arousal disorder in people with vaginas

Sexual arousal disorder is a condition that prevents or reduces arousal before and during intercourse. As confusing as it is frustrating, this condition directly impacts the ability to experience pleasure and therefore maintain interest in sexuality. People with vaginas who suffer from this disorder often feel isolated, abnormal and misunderstood, which further aggravates their feelings.

To deal with this problem, it is important to recognize that it is not the result of a choice, but represents a health concern that must be treated as such. If you are affected by this phenomenon and suffer from it, talk to a sexologist or your doctor. Medication treatments or behavioral therapy can help you find a solution.

Also maintain open communication with your partner who cannot understand what you are going through if you do not explain it clearly and honestly. Above all, try to free your mind from anything that could put a brake on your sexuality: stress, private and professional concerns, etc. Do not hesitate to ask your partner for a massage with relaxing massage oils . This will help you relax and maintain a bond between you.

Finally, remember that after all, if the situation suits you, you also have the right not to feel any particular attraction to anything related to sexuality.

Anorgasmia, a disorder that should not be considered as such

Anorgasmia, that is, the difficulty or even the impossibility of reaching orgasm, is a taboo subject, but one that concerns a significant part of the population. A source of frustration and incomprehension, this problem is particularly painful to experience in a society that too often emphasizes orgasm as the ultimate peak of a fulfilled sexuality. This can lead to a feeling of shame and inadequacy or even affect the mental health of the person who suffers from it and cause chronic anxiety and self-esteem problems related to sexual performance.

It is important to destigmatize anorgasmia. No, intimate fulfillment is not limited to orgasm alone. And thank goodness! Pleasure and satisfaction can be found in intimacy, connection to another, and the many pleasurable sensations throughout the act. Let us also remember that sexual response can vary greatly from one person to another and that it is also completely normal and positive for sexual experiences to vary as well.

If you're looking to heighten sensations, you can try new sexual practices and use relaxation techniques, as well as the use of stimulating products. For example, Sensuva's On Original Orgasm Stimulating Oil can help heighten your sensations and response to intimate stimuli, bringing a new level of pleasure and connection, without necessarily going through orgasm.

Skin diseases that can also affect the intimate mucous membranes

Sometimes, problems that have nothing to do with sexuality per se, such as dermatological concerns, influence intimate comfort.

Lichen planus

Lichen planus is an autoimmune disease that affects the skin and mucous membranes, including the genitals. This condition is characterized by itching, skin inflammation, and lesions that can be painful. Although lichen planus is not well known to the general public, diagnosing and treating it early can greatly improve the quality of life of those who suffer from it.

The use of creams based on corticosteroids or topical immunomodulators as well as systemic treatments can, for example, be prescribed by a dermatologist or a gynecologist. Appropriate intimate hygiene and the application of gentle and restorative care to the mucous membranes also help to relieve irritation and promote healing of the skin, to regain well-deserved comfort.

Vulvar melanosis

Vulvar melanosis is characterized by the appearance of pigmented (dark) spots on the vulva. Although these are generally harmless, they can be a risk factor for cancer in rare cases and are often a source of concern for people who suffer from them. This is why it is crucial to consult a health professional to obtain an accurate and serious diagnosis.

In many cases, vulvar melanosis does not require any treatment, but requires regular monitoring of the lesions. Beyond the purely medical aspect, it is important to understand and accept this difference in order to feel comfortable in your body and in your intimacy. If you are affected by this disorder, it is also essential to talk about it with your partner who could be surprised, or even needlessly frightened, at the sight of the colored spots on the surface of your mucous membranes.

The importance of opening the dialogue on rare sexual dysfunctions

Identifying, knowing and understanding intimate skin dysfunctions and diseases is essential to promote the well-being of those who suffer from them. Destigmatizing these problems and finding appropriate responses are fundamental steps towards complete intimate fulfillment.

Medical treatments, psychological support, use of specific products, multiple solutions exist to improve intimate comfort. The main thing is to talk about it! It is important to break the taboos surrounding these rare disorders, but which ruin the lives of many people.

Everyone deserves access to accurate information, warm and active support, and effective treatments to manage symptoms that impact sexual well-being. By raising awareness and sharing helpful resources, each of us can contribute to a more inclusive, positive, and caring environment where everyone feels heard, understood, and cared for.